Quest Revisions: 2010-03-04

March 4th, 2010

Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • Quest Revisions: 2010-03-03
  • Heard from Vee, Again!
  • Will BT Write Me?
  • Can Loving from Afar Survive
  • Dreams Of BT
  • Thirst, Itch, And Pain
  • Fast Love Can Be True Love
  • Dying Love Feelings
  • More Foot Traffic at My House
  • Foot Party This Weekend
  • She’s More Sane Than I
  • Indeed A Fear Of Rejection
  • Why So Fast The Fall
  • The Faster I Fall, The Deeper
  • Stable Idea Problems
  • Why Is This Different
  • Building a Stable
  • But It Won’t Last, They Say
  • What Thin Means To Me
  • But I Must Play A Little
  • I Love You Emmy
  • May I Covet Your Wife?
  • My Commitment Jitters
  • Emeebee, You Were Right
  • How to Keep Sex Good
  • Seeking Pity to Get Love
  • Dr. Phil’s Shows of Late
  • Love Born From Pity
  • Defending Pity-Gets-Love Idea
  • Getting Love By Seeking Pity
  • 2006-09 Month In Review
  • 2006-08 Month In Review
  • 2006-07 Month In Review
  • 2006-05 Month In Review
  • Correction on Olga’s BDay
  • What Is An Ideal Person
  • Keeping Faith
  • The Fallacy Of Hero Worship
  • I Worked, To Mate
  • The Need for Love is Healthy
  • On Trying Too Hard
  • Can We Change Our Nature
  • Can We Change Our Desires?
  • Meeting Me, Bingo, Pictures, Food
  • Sent Mentat my Dating Profile
  • One Wants to Talk More. Wow!
  • One Told Me Why She Said No
  • The Being-Average Lot
  • Why I’ve Yet To Find Her
  • Full Time Love Quest
  • Donna From New York
  • Fear Is Okay
  • On Giving Up Harmful Vices
  • Shall I Stop My Telephone Ads
  • Relocating For My Dream Girl
  • Writing Motivation Faltering
  • Is The Prize Worth The Pain
  • Chat With Philly Ellen
  • Nicky, The Latest Lady
  • Dating Services I’ve Used
  • Letter to Ann’s Friends
  • The Revelation
  • Chatting With Ann
  • Will Anns Obesity Matter
  • Hold The Phone
  • Amber Likes Me A Little
  • Bob Dating Emmy
  • Popular Emmy
  • My Emmy Gripes
  • New Match.com Profile
  • Beyond My Control
  • Love At First Sight
  • Met Emmy At Camp
  • Tina on Punnishment
  • Get Them Before They Get You
  • Lady In The Park
  • Love At First Sight Rules!
  • Here’s a Tall One
  • Mine Fields
  • The Dear Pat Letter
  • Talk With Another
  • No Problem With Interracial Dating
  • A Little Bit Of Interest
  • Wants Pics of Me
  • My Thoughts on Marriage
  • Another Lisa Wants to Talk More
  • A Bite Perhaps
  • She Gave Me Her Number
  • Natasha Let’s Talk on the Phone
  • My Dating Resume
  • How To Send A Picture
  • Personality AND Looks
  • Give Up That Guy
  • Plans to Quit Job
  • Was Nice Visiting Tina
  • Advantages of Sincerity
  • Be Yourself
  • Lynn And Me At Present
  • Lord Of The Rings
  • Tina is Sick
  • Let’s Do It Again, Please
  • Phone Tag with Tina
  • Shall We Meet Soon
  • Tonight’s Talk With Tina
  • Tina Can We Meet
  • Juanita Ignoring Me
  • Pat Ignoring Me
  • Philly Ladies
  • So Where Do We Eat
  • Beejay’s Got a Man Now
  • I Got Vee’s Pics
  • I Cannot Call First Love
  • LA In CA What
  • That You Kristen
  • Juanita, We’ll Do it Again
  • Asking Juanita For Lunch
  • Still On With Juanita
  • Haley’s a Mom at Night
  • Haley, a Correction
  • Lisser Is Pregnant
  • To a New Train Buddy
  • Plans for the Next Few Days
  • Advice from Lynn
  • Checking on our Lunch Plans
  • Another Try with a Coworker
  • Still After Kristen For Lunch
  • What Intercourse Means To Me
  • I Miss You Lynn
  • Just Checking In…
  • Initially By Ourselves
  • Crazy Over Cathy, A Secret
  • A Beautiful Stranger Wrote Me
  • Friend AM, Perhaps Lover
  • AM Lunch
  • Family Details: 1999-11-12
  • Defining Soul Mates
  • Tom Details
  • Dear Christina: About Me
  • To Yet Another, About Me
  • J Jilts Me
  • On My Vision
  • J, I’m Scared
  • New Sweetheart, J
  • Women Do Have it Harder
  • The Ah-Has
  • Seven Years Of First Love
  • Tid Bits On Me
  • Dear J: My First Love
  • Telling J About Me
  • Are We Friends?
  • Me Facts Learned in 1995
  • The Prize is Never Alone
  • Boundaries I’m Stretching
  • What Makes Me Desire Her
  • The More I Learn, The Less I Like
  • Fear Or Wisdom
  • Advantages of Multiple Partners
  • Progress With Joann
  • Relationship Myths I’ve Held
  • What Is Successful Dating?
  • Successes 1994-06-22
  • Beating Fear Of Rejection
  • Raising My Odds Of Meeting Her
  • As I Age, So Does My Dream Girl
  • Fear Of Eternal Aloneness
  • How To Meet That Special Lady
  • Beating The Fear Of Rejection
  • It’s My Choice To Be Lonely
  • How To Improve My Love Life
  • Impressions of Singles Groups So Far
  • Affirmations for Finding Love
  • Meditation: Advice For The Quest
  • Miscellaneous Musings from The Quest
  • Affirmation: Coping With Rejection
  • Affirmations Of A Searching Soul
  • Questions For The Love Quester
  • Will She Drive Me
  • A Comet And A Planet
  • Defying Fear At Dayton Mall
  • About My Dream Girl
  • Must My Ladies Drive
  • On The F Word
  • On Gently Forcing
  • No Substitute For A Bucket Full Of Love
  • Affirmation on Reality
  • Thoughts To Emeebee
  • Affirmations and Congratulations
  • Books for when The Quest Beats You Down
  • My Love Quest So Far
  • Love Quest Affirmations
  • Affirming To Beat The Fear
  • On Self Confidence
  • The Myth of Wholeness
  • On Perfecting The Soul
  • On Human Uniqueness
  • Snow Pile
  • First Love And The Rose
  • The First ‘I Love You’

    • Tom

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    Quest Revisions: 2010-03-03

    March 3rd, 2010

    Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • 2009-09-05 Foot Party Scheduled
  • 2009-07-03 Foot Party Wrapup
  • 2009-07-03 Foot Party Scheduled
  • 2009-05-02 Foot Party Wrapup
  • Weather, Pity, Liars, Weight
  • Melindas Weight Depression
  • Water Weight
  • Love Book
  • 2006-09 Review
  • 2006-08 Review
  • 2006-07 Review
  • 2006-05 Review
  • Another New Lady 2006-03-01
  • Another New Lady 2005-12-27
  • Another New Christmas Lady
  • Seeking Pity, Getting Love
  • Dating Introduction 2005
  • Another New Lady, Nancy
  • Love Quest Obsession
  • Playing Best Together
  • Love Requires Dedication
  • Lady Lust, Thirsty Craving
  • Proud Yet Humble Lovers
  • Dating Blind Women
  • Meeting Me, Bingo, Pictures, Food
  • Female Magic
  • Aging, Changing Priorities
  • Health Preference, Romance, Flowers
  • Drunken Boyfriends
  • Far Away Flirt Rejected
  • Getting Acquainted Far Away
  • Shorter-Than-She Rejection
  • Diagnosis Bias Closes Minds Early
  • Philly Ellen
  • Philly Ellen Fits
  • Will Anns Obesity Matter
  • Skating Goddess Ann
  • Already Taken Candidates
  • Online Dater Hates Computers
  • Tina Eats Healthy
  • Polling Lisa Again
  • Online Dating Via IM
  • Ages Just Numbers Usually
  • Home Work
  • Mine Fields
  • Romancing Iris
  • Puzzling Rejection
  • Polling Lisa 2002-06-13
  • BB Dating Around
  • Young BB
  • Meeting Tina, Someday
  • Meeting Tina Soon
  • Smitten BB
  • BB Likes Another
  • Tina Said Farewell
  • Learning Tina
  • Meeting Tina, Eventually
  • Friend Am, Perhaps Lover
  • AM Lunch
  • Experienced Living Alone
  • Jail Bird J
  • Family Friends Info
  • Successes 1994-11-05
  • Successes 1994-10-08
  • Spreading Desire Around
  • Successes 1994-09-28
  • Successes 1994-08-31
  • Successes 1994-07-07
  • Attractive Ladies, Line Up
  • Group Interaction Notes: 1994-06-17
  • Group Interaction Notes 1994-06-03
  • Group Interaction Notes: 1994-03-17
  • Dream Girls

    • Tom

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    Quest Revisions: 2010-03-02

    March 2nd, 2010

    Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • True Loves List
  • Predicting Love
  • Thin Preference: 2009-05-17
  • Lindas Lovely Lift
  • Remarkably Beautiful Linda
  • Goodbye Growing Bulge
  • No Foot Massage
  • Dating Blind Men
  • Thin Desires
  • Mating Double Standards
  • Less Weight Softer Feet
  • Compassion, Empathy, Pity
  • Love – Mere Chemical Response
  • Pity-Born Love
  • Victorious Rejections
  • Cruel Better Judgement
  • Enthusiastically Compassionate Love
  • Compassion Questing
  • Life Stops Til Love
  • Blind Man, Sighted Woman
  • Nines Dating Fives
  • Dreaming Encourages Trying
  • Love Quest Victories
  • Blind Assessments Slower
  • Looks Mean Much
  • Looks Save Time
  • Love Addiction
  • Blind Woman, Blinding Beauty
  • Correct Opinions Matter
  • Distance-Age-Other Excuses Quandry
  • Toms Desires
  • Hopeless Romantic
  • Sarah Fibs
  • Shallow Thin Lust
  • Ballerina Danced Away
  • Even Dieters Hate Thin Seekers
  • Consoling Ann
  • Slim Accept Slim Seekers
  • LizDee IMed
  • LizDee Likes Tom
  • Girlfriend Emmy
  • Lady In The Park
  • Interest Glimmers
  • I Cannot Call First Love

    • Tom

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    Quest Revisions: 2010-03-01

    March 1st, 2010

    Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • Nines With Fives
  • Can We Change Our Desires
  • What Do Looks Mean Anyhow
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Shall I Stop My Telephone Ads
  • Is The Prize Worth The Pain
  • Why Did She Go
  • No Problem With Interracial Dating
  • A Bite Perhaps
  • Shall We Meet Soon
  • Tina Can We Meet
  • Juanita Ignoring Me
  • Pat Ignoring Me
  • BDay Juanita
  • So Where Do We Eat
  • I Cannot Call First Love
  • LA In CA What
  • That You Kristen
  • Asking Juanita For Lunch
  • Trying Lenee Again
  • Perhaps Beejay
  • Defining A Soul Mate
  • Are We Friends
  • What Makes Me Desire Her
  • Fear Or Wisdom
  • Transportation Woes
  • Affirmation: Coping With Rejection
  • Perhaps Not Monogamy
  • Will She Drive Me
  • Why Friendship Before Romance
  • Must My Ladies Drive

    • Tom

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    Quest Revisions: 2010-02-28

    February 28th, 2010

    Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • Romanceless Camp
  • My List Of True Loves
  • You Can Predict Love
  • I Prefer Thin: 2009-05-17
  • Thanks For The Lift
  • To A Remarkably Beautiful Lady
  • Leaving a Growing Bulge
  • My Answer To A Rejection
  • Outer Vs. Inner Beauty
  • Tom’s Love Quest Summary
  • Would You Date A Blind Man
  • I Want Thin!
  • Weight Discussion Cont.
  • Double Standards In Mating
  • Weight Discussion Cont.
  • Advice To The Plump
  • Compassion, Empathy, And Pity
  • Love As Mere Chemical Response
  • Love Born Of Pity
  • Dear Melinda
  • Rejection, A Victory
  • Cruelty Of Better Judgement
  • Better Than Nothing But Not Best
  • Respectful, Sighted Women
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Another New Lady
  • Life On Hold Until Love
  • Blind Man With Sighted Woman
  • Nines With Fives?
  • While I Still Dream, I’ll Still Try
  • Little Wins In The Love Quest
  • Blind Assessments Of Lovers
  • What Do Looks Mean Anyhow?
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Dear Svetlana
  • Dear Svetlana
  • Distance, Age, And Other Excuses
  • What I’m Looking For
  • Telling Another About Me
  • Another Rejection
  • The Lying Sarah
  • Gold Digging Vs. Thin Digging
  • New Years Party Thoughts
  • Updating Tad
  • My ‘Shallowness’ on Fat
  • More On Ballerina
  • C’s Apology
  • Dear Heather
  • Why Did She Go?
  • C Was Angry
  • Explaining My Departure to Ann
  • Dear Ann
  • Ann’s Weight Gain
  • Tall And Slim
  • LizDee IMed Me
  • LizDee Thinks I’m Cute
  • Emmy And I An Item
  • The Lady In The Park
  • Dear Tina
  • Another Little Bit Of Interest
  • A Little Bit Of Interest
  • Dear Ang
  • Dear BB
  • Tina Answered
  • Dear Vee
  • Beejay’s Got a Man Now
  • LA in CA? What?
  • Overbrook Alumni Dinner
  • What Intercourse Means To Me
  • I Miss You Lynn
  • Woman Wants Taller Men
  • The Ah-Has
  • How To Improve My Love Life
  • Molly Visits Again
  • The First ‘I Love You’

    • Tom

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    Quest Revisions: 2010-02-25

    February 25th, 2010

    Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • Romanceless Camp
  • Giving Up Online Dating
  • Heard from Vee, Again!
  • Thirst, Itch, And Pain
  • Dear Terra
  • Dear Linda
  • Using Emmy
  • You Can Predict Love
  • About Linda
  • Cute Smile Lines
  • She’s More Sane Than I
  • The Faster I Fall, The Deeper
  • Getting Past Jilt
  • The Stable Idea Has Problems
  • Living Alone: 2009-05-17
  • My Commitment Jitters
  • Emeebee, You Were Right
  • Outer Vs. Inner Beauty
  • Tom’s Love Quest Summary
  • How to Keep Sex Good
  • Would You Date a Blind Man
  • Weight Discussion Cont.
  • Advice To The Plump
  • Compassion, Empathy, And Pity
  • Dr. Phil’s Shows of Late
  • Love as Mere Chemical Response
  • Love Born From Pity
  • Love Born Of Pity
  • Getting Love By Seeking Pity
  • Dear Joel
  • Growing Disenchantment
  • Melinda Asked About Emmy
  • Melinda Returns
  • Month in Review
  • Month in Review
  • Can Meditation Stop Love Lust
  • Rejection, A Victory
  • Productive Aloneness
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Work Does Not Replace Love
  • Keeping The Faith
  • Life On Hold Until Love
  • I Worked, To Mate
  • The Need for Love is Healthy
  • Life Without Love
  • Nines With Fives?
  • On Trying Too Hard
  • Little Wins in the Love Quest
  • Can We Change Our Desires?
  • What Do Looks Mean Anyhow?
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Dear Svetlana
  • Can We Date Up
  • Dear Svetlana
  • What I’m Looking For
  • Telling Another About Me
  • Another Rejection
  • One Wants to Talk More. Wow!
  • Another Rejection
  • Rejection Followup
  • Another Rejection
  • Dear Lonnie
  • Dear Lilia
  • The Love Quest Full Time
  • Another New Girl, Legs
  • Another New Girl, Matty
  • Dear Nazda
  • Fear and Acceptance Are Good
  • Fear’s Goodness
  • Motivation to Write Faltering
  • Is the Prize Worth the Pain?
  • C’s Apology
  • Letter to Ann’s Friends
  • Explaining My Departure to Ann
  • The Revelation
  • Magic Stick
  • Dear Ann
  • Susan on the Phone
  • Getting Profile Help
  • Bob And Emmy
  • Emmy And Her Man Friends
  • My Emmy Gripes
  • Married Guy After Emmy
  • Beyond My Control
  • Met Emmy At Camp
  • The Lady In The Park
  • Love At First Sight Rules!
  • El Seems Nervous
  • Vee’s Alone Time
  • Advantages of Sincerity
  • Be Yourself
  • Lynn And Me At Present
  • Ladies In Philly
  • Vee Did Not Return
  • I Got Vee’s Pics
  • Call First Love? Nope!
  • Thanks, Juanita
  • Let’s Try Cassee
  • Let’s Go Out Again
  • Plans for the Next Few Days
  • Thanks, Lynn
  • Advice from Lynn
  • Many Rejections So Far
  • Dear CVL
  • Lover’s PTSD
  • Dirty Apartments Stifle Romance
  • Initially By Ourselves
  • Dear Lynn
  • Learning Each Other
  • What’s a Soul Mate?
  • Dear J: I’m Scared
  • Dear J
  • I Like J
  • Women Do Have it Harder
  • The Ah-Has
  • Dear J
  • Seven Years Of First Love
  • Tid Bits On Me
  • Dear J: My First Love
  • Dear March: Friends?
  • Please, No More!
  • Me Facts Learned in 1995
  • The Prize is Never Alone
  • Thoughts
  • TLW Thoughts
  • Advantages of Multiple Partners
  • Thoughts
  • What Success in Dating is to Me
  • Beating The Fear
  • Asking Vs. Forcing
  • Male Quester’s Advice
  • Time Compartmentalization
  • The Fear of Eternal Aloneness
  • How to Meet That Special Lady
  • Beating The Fear of Rejection
  • It’s My Choice To Be Lonely
  • Healing Rejection
  • Thoughs: High Spirits, Monogamy, …
  • Meditation: Advice For The Quest
  • Miscellaneous Musings from The Quest
  • Monogamy? Perhaps Not
  • A Comet And A Planet
  • Defying Fear At Dayton Mall
  • Group Interaction Notes
  • Why Not Romance Before Friendship?
  • Pondering Over Emeebee
  • Must My Ladies Drive?
  • On Gentle Forcing
  • No Substitute for a Bucket Full Of Love
  • Miscellaneous Thoughts
  • Questions
  • Thoughts To Emeebee
  • My Love Quest So Far
  • Questions
  • Affirming To Beat The Fear
  • Remembering Emeebee
  • On Perfecting The Soul
  • On Human Uniqueness
  • The Snow Pile
  • Molly’s Last Visit
  • First Love And The Rose

    • Tom

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    Quest Revisions: 2010-02-24

    February 24th, 2010

    Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • Romanceless Camp
  • Will BT Write Me
  • Can Loving from Afar Survive
  • Using Emmy
  • Indeed a Fear of Rejection
  • Why So Fast The Fall
  • I Prefer Thin: 2009-05-17
  • No Guarantees: 2009-05-14
  • Why is This Different
  • Better Pavilion History
  • May I Covet Your Wife
  • How to Keep Sex Good
  • Would You Date a Blind Man
  • I Want Thin!
  • Can Meditation Stop Love Lust
  • Rejection, A Victory
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • What is an Ideal Person
  • Can We Change Our Nature
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Can We Date Up
  • Cheating Already
  • Relocating For My Dream Girl
  • Get Them Before They Get You
  • Beating The Fear
  • Emeebee’s Jilting
  • Healing Rejection
  • Easing Jilt Pains

    • Tom

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    Quest Revisions: 2010-02-23

    February 23rd, 2010

    Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • Can Loving from Afar Survive?
  • Dear Terra
  • Using Emmy?
  • Fast Love Can Be True Love
  • Dying Feelings of Love
  • About Linda
  • Why So Fast The Fall?
  • The Faster I Fall, The Deeper
  • But it Won’t Last, They Say
  • To A Remarkably Beautiful Lady
  • Dear Emmy: I Love You
  • Outer Vs. Inner Beauty
  • Tom’s Love Quest Summary
  • Would You Date a Blind Man?
  • Sorry You’re Fat. But I Want Thin!
  • Weight Discussion Cont.
  • Seeking Pity to Get Love
  • Compassion, Empathy, and Pity
  • Love as Mere Chemical Response
  • Inner Love Motivations
  • Different Sexual Strategies
  • Love Born from Pity
  • More on Love and Pity
  • Love Born of Pity
  • Getting Love by Seeking Pity
  • Seeking Pity
  • Dear Joel
  • Growing Disenchantment
  • Dear Melinda
  • Dear Melinda
  • Melinda Returns
  • Rejection, A Victory?
  • Cruelty of Better Judgement
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • The Fallacy of Hero Worship
  • I Worked, To Mate
  • Eliminating Selfish Urges
  • Can We Change Our Nature?
  • What Do Looks Mean Anyhow?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • The Being-Average Lot
  • Why I’ve Yet To Find Her
  • Update on Philly Ellen
  • Love Quest Activities Today
  • On Giving Up Harmful Vices
  • Update on Philly Ellen
  • Chat With Philly Ellen
  • New Years Party Thoughts
  • Asking about Yev
  • Love At First Sight
  • The Lady In The Park
  • Love At First Sight Rules!
  • You Ignoring Me Pat?
  • Call First Love? Nope!
  • Haley’s a Mom at Night
  • Emeebee Pushes Back
  • Lisser Pulls Away
  • Dear Mar
  • Going After More Feet
  • Lover’s PTSD
  • Checking on our Lunch Plans
  • Dear Am
  • Dear Lynn: About My Family
  • Dear Lynn: About Me
  • Dear Christina: About Me
  • To Yet Another, About Me
  • Dear J: On My Vision
  • Dear J: Women Do Have it Harder
  • Dear J
  • Telling J About Me
  • What Makes Me Desire Her?
  • The More I Learn, The Less I Like
  • Dating Strategy Adjustments
  • Is it Fear Or Wisdom?
  • Relationship Myths I’ve Held
  • Group Interaction Notes
  • Raising My Odds Of Meeting Her
  • As I Age, So Does My Dream Girl
  • The Fear of Eternal Aloneness
  • Affirmations for Finding Love
  • Group Interaction Notes
  • Affirmation: I Decide How To Cope With Rejection
  • Quotations
  • Affirmations of a Searching Soul
  • Questions for the Love Quester
  • Will She Drive Me?
  • About My Dream Girl
  • Affirmation on Reality
  • Affirmations and Congratulations
  • Affirmations for the Love Quest
  • Anti Smoking Kit
  • The Myth of Wholeness
  • The First ‘I Love You’

    • Tom

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    Quest Revisions: 2010-02-22

    February 23rd, 2010

    Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • Elsee’s Betrayal
  • No Romance Lately At Camp
  • My List of True Loves
  • Dying Feelings of Love
  • Getting Past Jilt
  • Blog Info
  • What Thin Means To Me
  • But I Must Play a Little
  • My Jitters About Commitment
  • Outer Vs. Inner Beauty
  • Sorry You’re Fat. But I Want Thin!
  • Compassion, Empathy, and Pity
  • Different Sexual Strategies
  • Cruelty of Better Judgement
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Cheating Destiny
  • The Fallacy of Hero Worship
  • The Need for Love is Healthy
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Rejection Followup
  • Another Rejection
  • Cheating Already?
  • Donna From New York
  • Doing More Love Questing
  • Picking Women Better
  • The Revelation
  • Chatting with Ann
  • My Emmy Gripes
  • Love At First Sight Rules!
  • Another Rejection
  • Dear Carol
  • Juanita Wrote Back
  • You Ignoring Me Juanita?
  • BDay Juanita?
  • Vee Did Not Return
  • Was That You, Kristen?
  • Juanita, We’ll Do it Again
  • Thanks, Juanita
  • Juanita, Still on Today?
  • Still On With Juanita
  • Haley, a Correction
  • Haley Said Yes
  • Let’s Try Haley
  • But Juanita Says Yes
  • Let’s Try Juanita Again
  • Lisser is Pregnant
  • To a New Train Buddy
  • Advice from Lynn
  • Another Try with a Coworker
  • Still After Kristen for Lunch
  • Just Checking In…
  • Crazy Over Cathy, A Secret
  • Unpopular SOs
  • A Beautiful Stranger Wrote Me
  • Dear Am
  • J Jilts Me
  • Sent 5 Introductions Today
  • Dear March: Date Invite
  • Good-Bye Tricia B.
  • Successes This Week
  • Successes This Week
  • Boundaries I’m Stretching
  • Successes This Week
  • Successes This Week
  • Progress with Joann
  • Successes This Week
  • “Mall Shopping”
  • My Accomplishments This Week
  • Therapy Notes
  • Group Interaction Notes
  • Still Feeling the Jilt of Emeebee
  • Group Interaction Meeting Notes
  • Impressions of Singles Groups So Far
  • Transportation Woes – A Little Selfish, A Little Giving
  • Reduced Desparation
  • Poem About Juanita: Rejected Again
  • Thoughts to Ease the Pain of Jilt
  • On the F Word
  • Books for when The Quest Beats You Down
  • On Confidence
  • The Snow Pile

    • Tom Hesley

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    Quest Revisions: 2010-02-18

    February 18th, 2010

    Today, I either added or modified the following posts in  the   Tom’s Love Quest    blog for improved brevity, clarity, categorization, appearance,  and search-ability:

  • Giving Up Online Dating
  • Mail Received: 2009-11-25
  • My List of True Loves
  • Dreams of BT
  • Next Foot Party Scheduled
  • Dear Luwella
  • Dear Terra
  • Dear Linda
  • Dear Vicki
  • Foot Party Wrapup
  • Low Inspiration
  • Next Foot Party Scheduled
  • More Foot Traffic at My House
  • Dear Miss Independent
  • About Linda
  • Cute Smile Lines
  • Foot Party Wrap-Up
  • Foot Party This Weekend
  • She’s More Sane Than I
  • I Prefer Dating The Thin: 2009-05-17
  • No Guarantees, I know: 2009-05-14
  • Making a Better Pavilion History
  • Building a Stable
  • But it Won’t Last, They Say
  • To a Remarkably Beautiful Lady
  • Foot Party Wrapup
  • My Answer to a Rejection
  • Foot-Worshiping Party
  • But I Must Play a Little
  • Tom’s Love Quest Summary
  • Therapy Session
  • Month in Review
  • Month in Review
  • Another New Lady
  • Another New Lady
  • Another New Lady
  • Correction on Olga’s BDay
  • Dear Tad
  • Dear Tess
  • Another New Lady
  • Another New Lady
  • Internet Relationships
  • Can We Date Up?
  • Distance, Age, and Other Excuses
  • Sent Mentat my Dating Profile
  • One Told Me Why She Said No
  • Another Interested Lady
  • Deleting Telephone Ads? Naaah!
  • Dream Girl Quest
  • Nicky, The Latest Lady
  • Polling…
  • Dating Services I’ve Used
  • Revelations Coming
  • Susan on the Phone
  • Getting Profile Help
  • Another Rejection
  • Another Rejection
  • Amber Likes Me A Little
  • Trying Again
  • New Profile at Match.com
  • Tina on Punnishment
  • Dear Briget
  • Dear Beth
  • Dear Christine
  • Polling Lisa
  • Dear Trisha
  • Dear Iris
  • Dear Trisha
  • Here’s a Tall One
  • Dear Jaya
  • Dear Jaya
  • Dear Iris
  • The Dear Pat Letter
  • Dear Pat
  • Talk with Another
  • Interracial? No Problem!
  • Another Little Bit of Interest
  • A Little Bit of Interest
  • Conversing
  • Slight Interest
  • Wants Pics of Me
  • My Thoughts on Marriage
  • Another Lisa Wants to Talk More
  • A Bite Perhaps?
  • Slow Profile Approval
  • She Gave Me Her Number
  • Natasha Let’s Talk on the Phone
  • Natasha’s Interested
  • Dear Ang
  • Polling Ang
  • Lisa Responded
  • Polling Lisa
  • More Polling
  • My Dating Resume
  • How To Send a Picture
  • Personality AND Looks
  • No See, No Write
  • Another New Acquaintance
  • Dear Lisa
  • Talking Lisa into Camp
  • Lisa’s Interested
  • Someone’s Interested
  • Give Up That Guy
  • Dear BB
  • Dear BB
  • Welcome Back, BB
  • Plans to Quit Job
  • Was Nice Visiting Tina
  • Meeting Tina
  • Meeting Tina
  • Advantages of Sincerity
  • Be Yourself
  • Dear BB
  • Dear BB
  • Dating Status
  • Figuring Out BB
  • Dear BB
  • Polling BB
  • Another New One, BB
  • Pat Wrote Back
  • Polling Pat
  • Dean Introduced Us
  • Lord of the Rings
  • Thanks, Tina
  • Dear Tina
  • Tina is Sick
  • Let’s Do It Again, Please
  • Meeting Tina Today
  • Polling Tina
  • Phone Tag with Tina
  • Shall We Meet Soon?
  • Tonight’s Talk with Tina
  • Dear Tina
  • Meeting Tina
  • Tina, Can We Meet?
  • Tina Answered
  • Tina: A New Lady
  • Juanita Wrote Back
  • You Ignoring Me Juanita?
  • Needing a Foot Fix
  • Ladies in Philly
  • Dear Pat
  • A New Camp Beauty
  • Dear Beejay
  • Happy Birthday Beejay
  • I Remember Everything
  • So Where Do We Eat?
  • I’m in Dayton Now
  • Next Dayton Trip
  • Beejay’s Got a Man Now
  • Checking in with Beejay
  • Another New Lady
  • Overbrook Alumni Dinner
  • A Gentle Reminder
  • Back in Philly Again
  • Juanita, We’ll Do it Again
  • Thanks, Juanita
  • Beejay, Good-Bye for Now
  • Juanita, Still on Today?
  • Beejay, Thanks!
  • Dinner Tonight with Beejay
  • Still On With Juanita
  • Let’s Try Lenee (Again)
  • Beejay Says No
  • Perhaps Beejay?
  • But Juanita Says Yes
  • Let’s Try Juanita Again
  • Beejay The Runner
  • Train Way Late Again
  • Dancing Tonight
  • Another New Woman
  • Dear Mar
  • At it Again
  • Dear Mar
  • Snack with CVL
  • CVL Rescheduled Too
  • Kristen Cancelled Lunch
  • Lunch with Kristen Today
  • Dear CVL
  • Dear CVL
  • Oh Great, CVL Said Yes!
  • Another Try with CVL
  • Another No
  • Going After More Feet
  • Consoling Mar
  • Lover’s PTSD
  • You’re Too Picky? Naah
  • Dear Kristen
  • More on Kel’s Friend
  • Okay, No Christy
  • Casting the Hook Again
  • Another Date Request
  • Dear JL
  • What Intercourse Means to Me
  • Dirty Apartments Stifle Romance
  • Dear Rita
  • Dear Beejay
  • Liked Your Ad
  • Dear Lynn: Revealing My Identity
  • Hi. Liked Your Ad
  • 40 of this Letter Sent Today
  • Dear J
  • Dear J
  • Dear Indy: The First Letter
  • Dear J: The First Letter
  • Dear Leona
  • Love Questing At Salem Mall
  • Trip to Salem Mall

    • Tom

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