Miscellaneous Musings from The Quest
If they don’t love me right away, they’ll never love me at all. NOT ! [First Love] took years. So this is a bad generalization.
If I’m looking for upfront insights as to my potential with a beautiful stranger, well sometimes I just can’t tell if something on my side would prevent the love. But then I can’t know for sure.
What I give must come entirely from me and not depend on them.
Idealistic. Those dating me should be free to date around and I should support them in their quest for happiness though that search might include domains outside of “us.”
I require exclusivity before altering any life patterns for a mate.
In previous relationships, the relationships MADE my patterns.
But no longer will they.
I depended too much on one person for love. I desire to help them find their oneness so that if they select me, I will become their Mr. Right.
Beware of my motives for complimenting. Be sure I’m not employing flattery as a subtle form of pressure on them to like me.
I avoid assuming that a woman will never love if she’s at first cold. On the other hand, steer clear of basing your happiness on the assumption that she will. Walk the line. I stay happy no matter what she may or may not do.
Keep a large supply of non cliché introductory phrases ready to use to start and maintain conversations.
Build my self-esteem. Make it very high.
I have time. Be patient.
I truly cannot afford the luxury of a negative thought. Such thoughts limit and slow your progress through life. Remain negative, and I’ll die a lonely, sad, and angry man.
