How can you tell if it’s you specifically, or just SOMEONE that an interested party wants? How do you know that the person wants you for your unique qualities and is not simply lusting in such a way in which any reasonably decent person could satisfy?
• Don’t look too much at the individual.
• But spend time learning about the individual.
• Attraction wears off after six months when people see reality.
• Perhaps they want you to respect their individuality.
• In love with love, rather than the person.
• Love and lust – you know you love if after orgasm you still want to cuddle and kiss and share.

Tom Hesley