Notes For Therapy
How do I periodically follow up with a woman who says she can’t go out with me right now because she’s seeing somebody but would consider it if she were free? Answer: Open the door, then let go of the knob.
I wish to control more my reaction (anger) when a lady refuses to give me what I want. I need to get “unspoiled.” Talk about DD. I often don’t deem the conflict completely resolved unless I get exactly what I want. This has undermined numerous relationships and I’m committed to improving this behavior. I feel that my anger at DD was justified, and so discussing it was appropriate.
The mall seems a much more difficult place to meet folks than at Group Interaction. Why? How do I master this environment? How do I start a conversation with someone walking in the opposite direction?
It’s hard to pursue women while friends (either mine or hers) are watching. It’s much easier to pull off when by myself and she is by herself. Why?
How do I know when I’ve done enough to interest a lady and to give up should her rejections persist? Again, open the door then let go of the knob.
