Advantages of Multiple Partners
• Helps prevent falling in love too quickly [with any one of them].
• Promotes ability to perform loving acts unconditionally.
• Tames the fear of approaching someone new.
• Does not mean that I’ve betrayed my dream and abandoned my pursuit of a monogamous and loving relationship.
• Facilitates a more even, tempered disposition, reducing tendency to over react to rejection. Easier to understand when one lover rejects me. (doesn’t want sex or desires to be alone) .
• Reduces vulnerability to any one person.
• Reduces possessive tendencies toward one woman.
• Heads off frustration and disappointment when she doesn’t return a call or is not home when I had hoped.
