Fear-Busting Strategies
• Don’t expect to turn a cold and indifferent rejection into warm, friendly acceptance in one approach. All you’ll do if you try is subject yourself to more bitter love rejections, as well as anger your target. If she doesn’t want to talk, accept that and move on. Once you’ve introduced yourself, it’s up to her to decide if she wants you. This is out of your control now. Don’t force, since affection obtained by coercive means is worthless, if you can get it at all.
• Don’t assume responsibility for her failure to respond positively. Don’t expect yourself to be able to melt a cold heart.
