Fear Or Wisdom
• Sometimes, that fierce, paralyzing monster I’ve called fear becomes a wise friend, warning of danger and offering a sort of sixth sense about women – a second sight if you will. It often knows how a woman will respond before I advance on her.
• I have proven that if I squarely engage the mind and will, then I can approach a lady despite the fear. However, mere ability to do this does not make it always right to do.
• But defying this fear and doing so wears me out and in most cases, the resulting interaction from the approach was undesirable.
• The more responsive the lady, the less the fear.
• The more indifferent she is, the greater the fear.
• Body language, spoken by the target lady, strongly affects my fear level of asking her out.
• If I know that she wants to meet a loving man, the fear lessens.
• Don’t press on when fear increases. After you’ve started the conversation, the fear should ebb if she likes you. If it doesn’t, then she doesn’t, and you should back away.
• Warning signs can heighten fear levels when asking for a date. These axioms help avoid the draining effect of needless fear.
• If she desires your company as much as you want her to, she’ll make time for you.
