• Reason for participating in activities besides pursuing women: You need things to discuss with new dates. It helps to have a few things about which you can speak passionately and freely, to take into a relationship. • It is … Continue reading
The factors of looks, smarts, and compassion I believe are key determinants of that feeling of electricity (love at first sight) (LAFS) that grips me when I meet certain women. Tom Hesley
This week, I watched a beautiful woman metamorphose into a plain-Jane and the attraction I felt (the electricity) faded as details about her surfaced, which included the following: • She is happily married. • She grew impatient with my slow … Continue reading
• I’ve worried about hurting ladies much more than gratifying myself with a lovely woman. • So as to avoid appearing nasty and obnoxious, I’ve ignored many, many opportunities to take initiative and let a lady know that I like … Continue reading
• If what you’re doing isn’t working, then do something different. • Folks view the world differently, and just as validly as I do. • To raise chances of success, boundaries must be stretched. Tom Hesley
• Send personal ad to ten ladies. Success! • Got three responses back saying that they’d like further communications. Success! • Placed my personal ad by all my telephones so that should a nice lady call me, I can read … Continue reading