Dear Lynn
Hi babe.
Sorry to have kept you up (again). Guess we did get sort of a late start on the conversation last night, especially since weâve been out of touch with each other for so long. But now that your routine has returned to normalcy, Iâll have you in bed and sleeping at a decent hour.
Thanks for being so understanding.
On your âfinishedâ floor: Again, if you want to work on it when I get there, no problem. Iâd be happy to help. But as you said, youâll probably have it taken care of before then.
Did you finish catching up on ALL your email this morning?
Hmmm, why would the carpenters have messed with your thermostat? Perhaps they thought you had mistakenly left the heat on before going on your vacation, and âonly wanted to helpâ? I dunno. Good thing it wasnât colder outside. You might have had some frozen pipes to deal with as well. Yuck.
On your sister being vision impaired: You did mention this early on in our association. That gave me encouragement because, I reasoned, that since you had spent so much time growing up with someone with a similar problem, that youâd likely not have the usual hang-ups about it which most other fully sighted folks have. Did your sister marry someone without weak vision? And, how does that issue play into their relationship, if at all?
Iâm [often] not legally blind in my good eye. I can ride a bike, roller skate, water ski, draw, paint, bowl, scan pics, and take pics also.
I can enjoy movies and TV, the beauty of pretty ladies (like you), a stroll through a big mall, some video games, hiking through lush green trails, and many other activities that one might assume can only be engaged in by folks with full vision.
Now there are some pastimes with which I am uncomfortable doing like downhill skiing, tennis, ping pong, motor biking, and sky diving. Also, I tend to work better alone, and do not function well in a collaborative situation where folks are drawing on whiteboards and visually brainstorming. But hey, we all have our strengths and weaknesses.
I give a great body massage. *grin*
Hope youâre not too sleepy about now.
Made some headway on the Y2K issue this morning. Not fixed yet, but weâre significantly closer now.
Yes, time. Actually, Iâm not in any hurry to find immediate answers to our uncertainties. All I know is that I like talking to you each night and sharing. We seem to have the âintellectual exchangeâ part of the relationship down pat. And there seems to be a certain degree of âemotional bondingâ going on as well. Weâll have to see how the âphysical closenessâ goes when we visit in person. But few things in life are ever accompanied by complete certainty. I suppose this whatever-it-is between us is no different. And I am comfortable with that. Iâm just happy that you spent as much time with me as you have.
You are always free to go or stay. Follow your heart, and donât worry about me. Whatever happens, Iâll be okay. This is one of those situations where you really do have to âlook out for number 1â. And if you DO stay, please do it for selfish reasons. Do it because it gratifies and satisfies you to do so, not because youâre worried about hurting my feelings. I want you to be happy, whether it be with or without me. Makes no difference.
More later.
