Emeebee Pushes Back
Dear [Emeebee],
Hi [...].
Been thinking since we talked, about what we talked about. And I just wanted you to know that, no, I do not value JUST the physical encounters we’ve had, nor those we may or may not have In the future. While these were nice, they certainly didn’t make up the whole of what it was about you that made me feel so good in your presence. I like discussing things with you and hearing your perspective, seeing you smile, and yes, occasionally arguing with you. The meals are always satisfying, no matter where we go. Just hearing your voice is something very special too, and all these good qualities, I believe I can still enjoy, even if timing and circumstance do not permit any sort of physical relationship between us right now. I am sorry for making the extent of our physical involvement a condition of our meeting next week. Didn’t mean to suggest that your only value to me is your physical attributes. I shouldn’t have done that.
If you’d still like to get together when I’m there next week, I’d really enjoy that, so long as it won’t cause [your current man] too much angst.
Now I won’t lie to you. The most acute, pressing desire I have of you at the moment, involves the removal of your shoes and stockings and doing some massage and foot worship. It’s sort of like someone after days in the desert without water. Though there are aspects of a visit to the desert that, under normal circumstances would be very pleasurable, because he’s thirsting, he tends to underestimate the value of these – maybe ignoring them altogether, and greatly (perhaps over) estimate the pleasure and relief that a cup of water would bring. If this person were to attempt to focus on the amenities of the desert without receiving water first, he’d certainly have difficulty doing so. It could be done, yes. But his mind would always be floating back to the water and how nice it would be to have some.
Last weekend, when I said I didn’t want to see you if we couldn’t connect on SOME physical level, I was thinking of this. I thought that I wouldn’t be very good company because of the desires we’ve already discussed, going unfulfilled. You have many nice personality traits and there’s much about you to like, besides your body. I know this. But sometimes the longing for physical closeness with you, blinds me to your other amenities. I shall endeavor to keep that from happening again.
If you cannot offer me just a bit of water (*smile*), then I will do what I can to put my thirst out of my mind, and concentrate on all your other fine traits, should we meet next week. Take pity on this thirsty man though, will ya? 
Just kidding. [Not really.]
What do you think? Would you still want to try for dinner or a furniture shopping trip?
Well, have to get back to conference.
So long for now, from Florida.
