When To Say “I Want You”
My interest in showcasing my sincerity, along with my distrust of those who hide agendas, is probably why I’m up front and honest with desirable women. I tell them that I want them within the first few conversations.
Sure. Sometimes, it’s too early to say these things. For instance, I wouldn’t tell a beautiful stranger that I’d love to kiss her feet. That’s something that’s best saved for the bedroom, if I ever get her there in the first place. Experience shows, and women confirm, that speaking this too soon is one sure way to keep her from my bed forever. So, timing of the presentation affects how women view me. If I say certain things too early, I risk destroying forever what might have turned into a wonderful association if I had only held my tongue a bit longer. I get this.
I have revealed too much at times when approaching those beautful strangers. But perhaps if I waited until after I’ve filled their heads with positive stuff about me, they’d run away less often when I finally reveal what pleases me, and so I’d get to be pleased more often.
I don’t know though. There’s just something devious and manipulative about this selective revealation approach. I hate being played. So, as the strong believer in the Golden Rule that I am, I find it shameful to play others by showing them only what I think they want to see. I admire honest people even if I reject them for what they’ve said and my hunch is that most women feel the same.
I must explore this more before taking a strong position on it.
