Dear [LizDee],
Wow. You really are quite insightful. I like.
Yes, I never bought into that exaggerated self-importance stuff that guys use on women either [to attract them]. I’ve seen it applied many, many times, on buses, in bars, at bookstores, and so on. The guy doing it really looked pathetic as the lady kept rolling her eyes, hoping he’d go away, pronto. Often, men using this technique brag about their house or car, their jewelry or bank accounts, or they chatter about that upcoming business trip to Madrid. I just can’t see that a lady who didn’t find him attractive (that romantic rush) immediately upon seeing him, would be swayed to fall in love just because he has lots of money.
Chemistry knows no class boundaries. The requirement that some ladies have that the man be able to afford her high maintenance costs is not a biological one, but rather, something she has decided on an intellectual level.
That’s a big problem with society today. We try to temper our animal instincts with intellect. The result? A whole bunch of unhappy people who, over sixty percent of the time, can’t stay married more than five years. But I’m rambling. I’ll talk to you more on the phone later about this, and other sweet topics.