Archive for May, 2004

Getting Profile Help

Friday, May 28th, 2004

[I've been having such bad luck getting ladies on match.com to get to know me, that I'm seeking help from them with preparing a profie that shows me in a better light. Maybe they'll have some answers that will generate more interest from the ladies.]

Good day.

I’ve seen in the emails that match.com offers help with preparing a more effective profile. But I don’t see anywhere on the site to ask for this help. Can you advise me on how to get this assistance?

Thanks much,
Tom Hesley

Another Rejection

Thursday, May 27th, 2004

[Another lady who doesn't want a long-distance relationship.]

No problem. Thanks anyway.

Tom Hesley

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Another Rejection

Thursday, May 27th, 2004

[This woman rejected me due to the couple hundred miles distance between us. So I reponded as follows:]

No problem. I full well understand. I’ve been in long distance relationships that’d make you cringe. They do have their shortcomings, no doubt. Best of luck to you in your (local) search for love.

Later,
Tom Hesley

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Talking with Someone New

Wednesday, May 26th, 2004

Dear Susan,

Well, I lived in Philly from 1997 through 2001, and loved the city, particularly the mass transit system. The first year I was there, I had an apartment in a high rise downtown at 22nd and Ben Franklin Parkway.

To learn the area, I used to invent these corny exercises such as: Visit every Acme grocery store in Philly, or ride every one of the 132 SEPTA bus routes. Never did that one, but did ride at least half of them. This made learning the busses and trains a breeze. Then, once I made some friends, I’d go and visit them, everywhere from Bristol to Kennett Square.

Walking is fun too. We’d plan these 15-mile hikes. And to make them really challenging, we did them in August, when daytime temps ran in the upper 90s. Once, we strolled from the Falls Bridge In west Philly all the way up to Roosevelt Blvd. And Byberry Road (about 16 miles).

I really miss that place and hope to be back there soon. Will be there as soon as I can afford a single, detached home in Ardmore, Haverford, Jenkintown, Glenside, Hatboro, or Doylestown. :)

I have several short stories to sell and two books in the making. This January, I hope to have twenty stories done and so. will find an agent and begin circulating them to publishers. If that all goes well, the return to your side of the state shouldn’t be too far away. In the meantime, I visit there often.

What about you? What keeps you passionate about life anyhow? :)

Tom Hesley

Another Rejection

Wednesday, May 26th, 2004

[This lady was opposed to the long distance between us. So I wrote back:]

No problem. Thanks anyway, for responding.

Take care,
Tom Hesley

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Another Rejection

Wednesday, May 26th, 2004

[This lady I contacted said that she's already in a relationship. So I wrote back:]

No problem. Congratulations on your new relationship. Hope it makes you happy. :-)

Tom Hesley

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Another Rejection

Wednesday, May 26th, 2004

[This lady is located in Philly but asked me if we might be too far away from each other to build a relationship. I responded as follows:]

No, not too far. I come to Philly every eight weeks or so, and the train stops in Paoli. In fact, I hope to relocate to somewhere on the main line in the next few years (Ardmore is one of my favorite places).

Tom Hesley

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Another Rejection

Sunday, May 23rd, 2004

[This lady wants to avoid long distance relationships, and she is pretty far away. So I wrote back:]

No problem. Thanks for responding.

Tom Hesley

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Already Taken Candidates

Monday, May 17th, 2004

[This lady said that she and I might have corresponded before and that she's still in a relationship with someone else. So I respnded as follows:]

No problem.

May I suggest that you hide your match.com profile since you’re already involved with someone? That way, us guys won’t waste our time or yours sending you messages that you don’t wish to receive. Unfortunately, match.com doesn’t provide an easy way to keep track of who we’ve sent messages to. It’d be nice if we could set options to keep specific users from coming up in the search results. But I know of no way to do this. So I’ll try not to send you anymore but have no way to guarantee this. If I do however, just ignore them if you’re not interested.

Thanks,
Tom Hesley

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Another Rejection

Thursday, May 13th, 2004

[This lady said that she admires my accomplishments but is looking for someone 'different'. So I responded as follows:]

No problem. Thanks very much for responding.

Tom Hesley

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