Another Rejection
Wednesday, May 12th, 2004[This lady wants someone closer to New York. So I replied as follows:]
No problem. Thanks so much for responding.
[This lady wants someone closer to New York. So I replied as follows:]
No problem. Thanks so much for responding.
[This woman just said that she thinks that we wouldn't be a good match. So I answered as follows:]
No problem. Thanks for responding.
[Trish expressed concernes about the distance betweens us - she's in VA and I'm in PA. But she said that she'd email anyhow. So I replied with the following:]
Hi again [Trish].
I just finished working on a new hot chocolate recipe for this coming winter. I only drink the stuff around the holidays but drink lots of it then. The sugar in it has always been a problem. One of those things that contributes to the “holiday-10” weight gain.
So I’m working on a recipe without sugar. It uses the Splenda sweetener instead. Virtually indistinguishable from sugar, in my humble opinion. The concoction has unsweetened cocoa, dried milk, coffee creamer, Splenda, and salt. Tastes pretty good. But now I’ve got unsweetened cocoa all over my jeans. Looks like I’ve been digging outside all day.
So what do you do for fun? How’s the weather there? Do you like to read or write? Do you listen to music on the radio at all? If so, what kind do you like?
I’m a DJ, and so have lots of different varieties of popular music – everything from country to classic rock, to alternative, to disco, and to modern dance.
Okay, time for bed. Catch you later.
[This lady just said that she didn't think that her and I would work. So I replied as follows:]
Okay. No problem. Thanks for responding. That was mannerly of you.
Take care,
Tom Hesley
[Another rejection due to long distance between us. So I responded as follows:]
No problem. Thanks for responding just the same.
[This lady says that I sound like a great guy, but that she is currently communicating with someone and wants to see how that's going to unfold. So I replied as follows:]
No problem. Thanks for responding to me, good luck to you in your new relationship.
[This lady doesn't want to spend any more time on the computer than she must, in order to meet a mate. So she declined my offer to get acquainted online. So I responded with the following:]
Pam,
Thanks for writing back. Best of luck to you in your search.
Tom Hesley
Hey [Amber],
Are you still with me? You seem quite nice and I’d enjoy conversing further, if you’re still up to it. I hope you don’t sleep through my emails.
I’m special.
Tom Hesley
[This one declined my offer to get acquainted because she's already in a new relationship. So I replied as follows:]
Hey, that’s wonderful. Congratulations. Best luck to you in your relationship.
[This one declined because of the long distance between us. So I replied as follows:]
No problem. Thanks for responding anyway. Good luck to you too in your search.