[Nicky]i, The AOL software may have settings that make it prevent you from receiving attachments and URLs. I don’t, unfortunately, know much about AOL these days. But perhaps if you called AOL customer service, and told them that you’re having … Continue reading
Monthly Archives: November 2004
Another Long Distance Rejection
Hi Lisa. Thanks for responding. Yes, waiting for “the best” is sound philosophy. I’ll keep looking. Take care, Tom Related Posts Combating The Shame Of Rejection
No Profile Link?
Dear [Nicky], Hmmm. Not sure what to do. AOL must remove URLs and attachments to help prevent viruses from spreading. Let me give it some thought. Tom
Nicky, The Latest Lady
Hi [Nicky]. Enjoyed talking with you last night. Sending you a couple pictures of me, as we discussed. This one is of me Djing a sweet-sixteen birthday party in 2003. I thought I’d send you a link to my profile … Continue reading
Shallow Thin Lust
[This lady rejected me because she says that I'm so focussed on avoiding fat mates, and this she said, is very shallow. So I responded as follows:] Well, at first, many react to my profile as you did. But once … Continue reading
Another Rejection
[This lady said simply that she just did not see any match between us. So I responded as follows:] Thanks so much for writing back. Take care, Tom Related Posts Combating The Shame Of Rejection
Dear Ann
Dear [Ann], Thanks so much for your support. Sometimes, I don’t ask people for support enough, when I really need it. But when I asked, you were right there. You are indeed a very special friend. Tom Hesley
Ballerina Danced Away
[C], Your point about the ballerina is well-taken. She seemed like an open communicator for several weeks at the beginning. But then, to just up and leave with nary a word. Well, after all she said about wanting to be … Continue reading
Another Rejection
[This lady rejected me due to the long distance between us. So I responded as follows:] Thanks so much for responding, and good luck with your move. Tom Related Posts Combating The Shame Of Rejection
C’s Apology
[C], I had to mull over your letter [of apology] for a bit before responding. As you probably know, [Ann] and I are on good terms once again. Hopefully, in a little while, this whole thing will be just a … Continue reading