Picking Women Better
I made enemies last year. Well, perhaps the word _enemies_ is too harsh. But four ladies are upset with me at present. [Emmy] is mad because of the perfectionist she says I am. Arrs feels the same, as does Lissdee. The fourth, the ballerina, stopped talking abruptly last October. So four women I dated in 2004 dislike me now, in 2005. This is not good. So perhaps I should change my approach?
But what would I do? I’ll better choose my women for one. If I more accurately considered them before they fell for me, I might avoid the guilt of hurting them should I discover a deal-breaker and leave. Last year, I waited too long to get out, and thus got too involved before knowing that there were no deal breakers, and that I’d really want to stay. So when I finally left, this hurt them a lot and shamed me too.
But as a result, I pick better since I’ve learned some great lessons on how to select dates well, from those four angry women. I know now that my dates must be tall, thin, and probably fair-skinned, not too needy, no drugs, no smoking, no drama, no manipulative lying, and they must satisfy my passions lovingly. If they don’t, then I’ll end it, pronto. No questions asked. I will not tolerate them hanging up on me or putting me down for what I like. They should respect me always and diminish me never. If they do? Then they’re gone.
I never want to hurt this many women in a year again, and I believe that choosing them more wisely to begin with, is the key.
