Sarah Fibs
I learned that Sarah lied last March about her weight. She claimed to stand 5’ 7’’ tall at 115 pounds. This prompted me to ask more because she had a sweet voice and sounded like someone I’d find very attractive.
But today she admitted to being just 5’ 4’’ tall, and _heavy_. She wouldn’t say how heavy, and as luck would have it, she waited to tell me this until after I’d given her my mailing address. Damn! Yes, I’ve been had. Since she knows where to find me, I must play this carefully. I resent her lying, and will end our association immediately. She’s a liar and overweight to boot; no one I want to date further.
But how will she react? I’m scared that she might make problems here at home. So confronting her seems like a bad idea. I’d best avoid angering her. But if I left too abruptly, I’d do just that. Instead, I’ll wait until she sends her pictures. Then I’ll tell her I looked at them, but feel nothing. I’ll keep my true reasons quiet, in order to keep the peace until I make a clean break. I don’t know what she’s capable of, so being as truthful here as I would like could be dangerous.
So ladies: Don’t lie to your men like this. It is selfish and disgusting. By doing so, you’ll void his trust in you for perhaps years to come. Ultimately, you’ll lose the very prize you’d hoped to win by deceiving; your relationship. So don’t lie for selfish gain. Lie to protect yourself if there’s no other way. Lie to save your man if you must. But do not lie to make him love you, when you know he would not if he knew the truth.
