Diagnosis Bias Closes Minds Early
[This lady gave no reasons for her lack of enthusiasm for communicating further with me. So, I asked her why:]
Hi.
I’d like to ask why you’re not interested in getting to know me. After reviewing your profile, it seems to me like we’d get along well. Am I too heavy? Too thin? Too fair? I’ve been told that I’m not much to look at in photos. Yet ladies say that once they get to know me a little, they’re pleasantly surprised, claiming that my charm shows up later on.
Come on. I neither do drugs, smoke, nor drink. I’m disease-free and don’t have any exes hanging around. No drama. I am debt-free, with a credit score well above 740. I have 20 years of software engineering experience with much earning potential. I’m a simple, honest, hard worker. You could do much, much worse. 
So why not at least give me a week or two of your most open mind and heart. You might find that I’m more attractive then, than you first thought when you looked at my pictures.
Just curious,
Tom Hesley
