Rejection Followup
Hi.
I guess I don’t see why dating someone [so much] younger is so creepy to you. In reference to my last letter, it sounds lie you never really have tried dating someone older. Young woman’s prejudice. But so be it.
But to answer your “curiosity”, I don’t pursue women because they’re younger. I just ask those out who attract me. Whether that means that they’re 20 years younger, my own age, or (in one case) 18 years older makes no difference to me. Perhaps as you pass through your twenties, age will matter less to you too. In your case, when I read your profile, I was attracted to you, and so decided to write. No more complicated than that. I don’t care about race or education level either because in the end, it’s all about “the feeling.” If the feeling is there, then the differences will most always fall into place, and not be issues. You inspired that feeling when I read your profile. Oh well. Too bad you didn’t experience it when you read mind.
Oh, and about the “settling down” part: Well, yes, I’d love to get with the woman of my dreams. But I’m not in any hurry to be married or engaged. In fact, it matters not to me if I ever marry. I wouldn’t say no to it. But it’s not a passion. I just like the companionship and closeness that people in good relationships enjoy. Don’t need papers and ceremony for that.
Forgot to say one more thing: Why don’t you call me at your convenience and we can chat for a half-hour or so. I’m not creepy. Let me show you that I’m an ordinary guy with normal feelings, and honorable intensions.
814-742-xxxx
I work at home so am here all day and into the evening.
Well, take care.
