[Apparently, I had talked to this lady some time ago, and she wrote today, wondering where I've been, as I've not communicated with her in a little while. So I wrote back as follows:] No, you have not offended me. … Continue reading
Monthly Archives: May 2005
Can We Date Up
[Mentat], Per our conversation a couple weeks ago: I hope I didn’t sound judgmental when we were talking about dating handicapped women. I have a similar problem as you when dating them – most of them leave me feeling like … Continue reading
Another Interested One
Hello. I just received your email address on match. Thanks for writing. So, you’re from Oakmont. Ever get to Pittsburgh much? Where do you like to go when there? I enjoy hanging out at Flagstaff Hill in Oakland. In fact, … Continue reading
Another One’s Interested
[This lady supplied a different email address, wanting me to write to her there. So I did, as follows:] Hi. Well, here I am. I’m glad you liked my profile. What did you enjoy about it? Tom Hesley
Income in Dating Profile
[Mentat looked at my profile briefly and asked why I did not give my income in it. I responded as follows:] Dear [Mentat], Yes, I used to put my income out there, even when it was 88,000 per year. I … Continue reading
Another Rejection
[This lady said that I looked like the unibomber in my dark sunglasses, and suggested that I put up a different primary photo. So I responded as follows:] Does mean that you’re not interested in starting up a correspondence? Tom … Continue reading
Another Rejection
[This lady says I'm too short and too far to consider starting up a relationship with. So I responded as follows:] Okay. Well, thanks anyway for responding. Take care, Tom Hesley Related Posts Combating The Shame Of Rejection
A Little Interested
[This woman, in response to my flirting, asked me a few questions. I answered as follows:] Hi. Yes, I’ve been to LA in the mid 90s. I have a friend in Pasadena who has often invited me out for a … Continue reading
Another Rejection
[This lady wishes only to date those local to her. So I wrote back:] Okay. Well, thanks for responding. Tom Hesley Related Posts Combating The Shame Of Rejection
Sent Mentat My Dating Profile
[Mentat], Per our discussion the other night, here’s a link to my dating profile on match.com. If you have some time, would you take a look at it and see if you notice any problems? [...] Let me know if … Continue reading