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Thomas J. Hesley's Account of his Quest for True Love

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Why Haven’t I Written?


Posted on May 31, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[Apparently, I had talked to this lady some time ago, and she wrote today, wondering where I've been, as I've not communicated with her in a little while. So I wrote back as follows:] No, you have not offended me. … Continue reading →

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Can We Date Up


Posted on May 31, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[Mentat], Per our conversation a couple weeks ago: I hope I didn’t sound judgmental when we were talking about dating handicapped women. I have a similar problem as you when dating them – most of them leave me feeling like … Continue reading →

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Another Interested One


Posted on May 28, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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Hello. I just received your email address on match. Thanks for writing. So, you’re from Oakmont. Ever get to Pittsburgh much? Where do you like to go when there? I enjoy hanging out at Flagstaff Hill in Oakland. In fact, … Continue reading →

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Another One’s Interested


Posted on May 26, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[This lady supplied a different email address, wanting me to write to her there. So I did, as follows:] Hi. Well, here I am. I’m glad you liked my profile. What did you enjoy about it? Tom Hesley

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Income in Dating Profile


Posted on May 19, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[Mentat looked at my profile briefly and asked why I did not give my income in it. I responded as follows:] Dear [Mentat], Yes, I used to put my income out there, even when it was 88,000 per year. I … Continue reading →

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Another Rejection


Posted on May 18, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[This lady said that I looked like the unibomber in my dark sunglasses, and suggested that I put up a different primary photo. So I responded as follows:] Does mean that you’re not interested in starting up a correspondence? Tom … Continue reading →

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Another Rejection


Posted on May 18, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[This lady says I'm too short and too far to consider starting up a relationship with. So I responded as follows:] Okay. Well, thanks anyway for responding. Take care, Tom Hesley Related Posts Combating The Shame Of Rejection

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A Little Interested


Posted on May 18, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[This woman, in response to my flirting, asked me a few questions. I answered as follows:] Hi. Yes, I’ve been to LA in the mid 90s. I have a friend in Pasadena who has often invited me out for a … Continue reading →

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Another Rejection


Posted on May 18, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[This lady wishes only to date those local to her. So I wrote back:] Okay. Well, thanks for responding. Tom Hesley Related Posts Combating The Shame Of Rejection

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Sent Mentat My Dating Profile


Posted on May 18, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[Mentat], Per our discussion the other night, here’s a link to my dating profile on match.com. If you have some time, would you take a look at it and see if you notice any problems? [...] Let me know if … Continue reading →

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