Dear [Tess], You’re probably just waking up for the new day. But it’s bedtime here. So I’m heading there now and wanted to say good night. I had a dream about you last night. We were meeting for the first … Continue reading
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Daily Archives: October 21, 2005
Productive Aloneness
Dear [Mentat], Yes, reading Maslow and some philosophical works has softened my view on [my belief that a man's life is doomed if he spends it alone]. After all, many philosophers live life alone. They accomplish much. But so many of them … Continue reading
Differing Life Rules
Dear [Mentat], I’ve written much about better judgment in a post I’m preparing to send you. It’s another big one. If you met someone supremely attractive to you, there would be no question. You would pursue it. Everyone plays life … Continue reading
Better Than Nothing But Not Best
Dear [Mentat], Taking what you can get until you find better is perfectly okay, so long as you communicate to the woman who loves you that this is precisely what you’re doing. My friend [Emmy] is a better-than-nothing in my life … Continue reading
Respectful, Sighted Women
Dear [Mentat], [...] Your heart does not beat for heavy women, and it’s good to read that you suspect that your affections for such a woman would probably fade after the novelty of dating a sighted woman fades. I say … Continue reading
The Perfect Lid for the Pot
Dear [Mentat], Yes. However, when it comes to finding that perfect lid for a pot, competition can only achieve so much. Sometimes, people are just meant for each other, even when numerous other opportunities abound. They stick together, no matter … Continue reading
Strong, Independent Providers
Dear [Mentat], Well, this would also be good grounds for suspicion. You wouldn’t want to make the immediate assumption that she selected you because she found you overwhelmingly more attractive than anyone else in her vast selection pool. Not that … Continue reading
Dear Tess
Dear [Tess], Are you at home when you write me? Or, are you at an Internet café somewhere? Sleep well. By the way, do you have any more pics? I have you on my desktop. Tom Hesley
Dear Tess
Dear [Tess], It is 12:30 PM here. So, you’re 5 hours ahead of me. However, soon we’ll be setting our clocks back one hour here in the US, returning from daylight savings time to eastern standard time. Does your country … Continue reading