Another New Lady
Thanks for the email. I think you’re a truly beautiful woman.
I’ve been on match on and off since 1999. How about you?
I just reviewed your profile and wanted to get a few things out of the way right up front.
- I don’t want to have children.
- I do not drive (low vision).
- I do not drink (not even socially), and generally steer clear of big crowds and parties.
- I like it quiet. No door slamming, blaring TVs, or shouting. I hate unnecessary noise, and prefer the library atmosphere over the bar.
- I have a stable but low income right now (aspiring writer and philosopher). I’m not into the “rich, corporate” life anymore. Been there. Done that. Found it stressful, difficult, and empty.
- I’m not looking to rush into anything. Lots of phone talk and casual dating first. Then, if it’s right, maybe more.
- Open communication is a must. Always.
If none of this puts you off, I’d love to get to know you. A bit more about me.
- I’m willing to travel to visit each month once the time is right, and particularly enjoy entertaining people who visit me. Do you like showing a special new person around your home town? I love doing that, and seeing their home town as well.
- If you like reading, and reading to each other occasionally, that’s a plus. Currently, I’m studying American and English classic literature but also enjoy science fiction and psychology.
- Mine is a life full of simple pleasures, introspection, and contemplation. I’m quiet, laid back, gentle, and knowledgeable.
- I’m a good listener and since I’m well-read, have insights on many issues you might want to discuss.
- I enjoy long talks, and spiritual walks.
- Also, I love giving massage — especially foot massages — to ladies to whom I’m attracted. And I love getting them too.
- If you’re not looking for a man to spoil you with lavishness, then perhaps I’m your guy. I gladly share my resources with my ladies, so long as it’s not expected.
- Do write again if you’d care to communicate further.
Take care,
Tom Hesley
PS: Do you have some other pics you could send along?
