The chat group resented my preference for dating tall, thin women, and they’d been riding and ridiculing me about it for days. So at this point, I wrote this to them…
I never said that I seek someone who will be forever illness-free, [...]. Indeed, I’m quite an effective caregiver, at this very moment, mind you.
I simply prefer not to date heavy people for reasons that I’ve explained in depth. You call it rationalization; I call it explanation. That’s all.
On the contrary: genetics and life-style have just about everything to do with why people get sick. It has been written that we humans are indeed designed genetically to self-destruct eventually, and guess what? We always do.