True Loves List

These girls wooed me the most over all.  Not that they   all   produced the greatest sexual or romantic desire and gratification, though some of them did.  But at times while either pining for or dating each of these, I felt I could be with no one more suited to my tastes, morals, values, education level, religious beliefs, social status, and so on.   While grazing in these ladies’ pastures, the grass immediately surrounding me was always the greenest.  Indeed, there was no such thing as greener grass on the other side of the fence.  There may have been   equally   green grass; but none greener.  I sensed that I was dating among the best I could, and that there was none better.  Now I’ve dated many others besides these.  But only relationships forged with the ladies in this list appeared to be the best that a relationship could be; at least for a few months to a few years anyhow. 

And now, the list:

  1. [First Love]   in 1972 through 1990.
  2. [Molly]   in 1974.
  3. [Ann]  in 1974, and briefly in 2004.
  4. [Maniac]   in 1975.
  5. [BT]   in 1976.
  6. [Shaina]   in 1977.
  7. [Dawn]   in 1979.
  8. [Cher]   in 1981 through 1983.
  9. [Andrea]    in 1982.
  10. [Shelly]   in 1983.
  11. [Shanee]   in 1983.
  12. Paula Eide    in 1984.
  13. [Fannie]   in 1984 through 1987.
  14. [Kate]  in 1986 through 1987.
  15. [Lenee]   in 1988.
  16. [Elstan]  in 1988 through 2002.
  17. [Cassee]  in 1989, 1994, and 2000.
  18. [Renee]   in 1990 through 1991.
  19. [Juanita]   in 1991, 1994, and 2001.
  20. [Roberta]   in 1991.
  21. [Chrissy]   in 1993.
  22. [Emeebee]   in 1993 through 1998, and then again briefly in 2001.
  23. [Carlene J]  in 1993 and then again in 2000.
  24. [Melinda]  in 1995, and briefly in 2007.
  25. [Alandra]   in 1996 through 1997.
  26. [Judith]   in 1997.
  27. [Vee] in 1997 through 2002.
  28. [Kar]   in 1998 through 1999.
  29. [J]   in 1999 through 2000.
  30. [Lynn]  in 1999 through 2000.
  31. [Beejay]   in 2000 through 2001.
  32. [LizDee]   in 2002 and 2004, briefly.
  33. [Emmy]   in 2003, and 2005.
  34. [Kandi]  in 2003 through 2005.
  35. [Ballerina]   in 2004.
  36. [Linda]   in 2009.
  37. [Elsee]   in 2009.

 

Click on each name link to see the posts that pertain to that lady.

Take care.

Tom

3 Responses to “True Loves List”

  1. Terra Says:

    Hi Tom,

    I just wanted to send you my regards. I saw Jack at the last party and he informed me that your mother was ill. I hope that she is doing better and that you are in good spirits. We missed you at the party, but it sounds like you have some pressing matters to take care of at home. Best wishes to you and your family.

    Hope to see you soon,
    Terra

  2. Tom Hesley Says:

    Thanks much, [Terra].

    Yes, lots to do here at present. Just replaced a roof on our shed out back, and we’re building a ramp for Mom; she’s using a wheelchair these days, and it’s not clear when (or if) she’ll be able to walk on her own again. This is a steep adjustment for the whole family, and so I really can’t get away right now since I’m providing day-to-day care to her, and am so heavily involved in retrofitting her house so she can get around in it without too much hardship. Hey, she took care of me when I was a child. Now, it’s my turn to return the favor, and I’m honored to give some of what Mom gave to me, back to her.

    Just cleaned the gutters at the house here and discovered some leaky, broken ones from the ice last year. I’ve repaired them but they kept me challenged for a few days this week. Some of them had pulled away from the house and were about to fall down. But they’re quite secure now; I’ve re-fastened them in a stronger fashion than what had been done before. Yep, the money comes in, and then it goes right back out again. :-)

    Did a DJ wedding reception gig last night, and I’m back into writing again full tilt. That’s going well, and I hope your writing is working for you too. You can check out my diary blog for more details on what I’m up to these days.

    I’m not sure when I’ll get back to Philly. The foot parties were fun. But I should pursue more local venues since my plan is to live the rest of my days here in Altoona. Given that, it’s crazy to risk falling in love in a place as far away as Philadelphia, when my goal is to stay here. Plus, with Mom’s physical health as unpredictable as it has been, I’ve got to be saving as much as practical so I can purchase her property upon her death. Foot worship must therefore, take a back seat at the moment.

    But do stay in touch on this blog now and then, because it’s sure nice hearing from you.

    Take care.

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