I heard from [Kar] yesterday. She left me voicemail, curious about how Mom is doing since the heart failure diagnosis last week. That was sweet of her to remember my family in these trying times. Now I do not normally let a call … Continue reading
Category Archives: Deception
Judy’s Silent Rejection
From audio journal episode: AJE-2010-05-31-21-52. I thought when I got back in touch with [Judy] a few weeks ago (details here), that things would be different this time. But so far, we’ve only talked once on the phone in nearly … Continue reading
Avoiding Needless Rejection: 2010-05-19
Inspired by audio journal episode: AJE-2010-05-06-11-12. I encountered anxiety while writing this piece lately; at times, the words just weren’t coming; classic writers’ block. Sometimes, I beat this by just writing anything, impromptu, even when I did not yet know what … Continue reading
Stable Idea Problems
Recently, I posted a piece here that discussed building a “stable” of beautiful women; a little black book if you will. The idea was to keep several women available so I could spread my desire around, and not rely too … Continue reading
Weather, Pity, Liars, Weight
Hi [Melinda]. We got about 7’’ of snow Friday night and yesterday but no sleet however. This will probably be the last big snow we get, although I have seen snowstorms as late as the end of April. We’ll just … Continue reading
Compassion, Empathy, Pity
Dear [Melinda], But before I get to that, I’d like to make some initial comments. I wanted to include a few definitions (for the words pity, compassion, and empathy) here for your consideration. Just follow the links to see them. … Continue reading
Inner Love Motivations
Dear [Melinda], Well, I would say that love manifests itself outwardly through the actions of the one who harbors it. However, my definition doesn’t stop there. Mine is also concerned with the inner motivations that drive those actions. So why … Continue reading
Blind Assessments Slower
Dear [Mentat], Now I agree with the rest of what you said on the difficulties blind men face when trying to assess women quickly. Upon reflection, it seems that though the sighted can use vision to make better first assessments, … Continue reading
Correct Opinions Matter
Dear [Mentat], I agree. If I was one hundred percent convinced that [Lenee] was in truth my dream girl, then no one’s negative opinions of her would have lessened my desire to date her. You’re right. My family’s cool reaction to [her] … Continue reading
Tom’s Desires
Hi Svetlana. I like how you appear in the pictures you sent. You have a pretty face, and I especially like your cheeks and eyes. Very nice. I believe in honesty strongly, so I want a lady who tells the … Continue reading