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Category Archives: Distance Loving

Can Loving from Afar Survive


Posted on October 9, 2009 by Tom Hesley
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Today’s question: Can loving from a distance survive getting closer?  That is: Can someone we love from afar remain as enchanting once we know them better than as just a beautiful stranger?  Can we stay in love with them once … Continue reading →

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One Told Me Why She Said No


Posted on March 28, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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Hi. Thanks for writing back. I suppose I should put this in my profile. But if I find the right girl, I’ll relocate to where she is if her area meets certain conditions. Given your circumstances, I understand that you … Continue reading →

Posted in Acceptance, Attraction, Dating Venues, Distance Loving, Letters, Online Dating, Physical Attraction, Receiving Rejection, Rejection | Leave a reply

Philly Ellen


Posted on January 13, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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Oh yes, [Philly Ellen] called, saying that she wants to keep talking. She’s rethought some of her issues about if and how we’re going to get together. So we’ll keep talking for a while. That was nice. Tom Hesley

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Philly Ellen Fits


Posted on January 4, 2005 by Tom Hesley
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[Philly Ellen]   seems a nice fit because she’s not a bar fly either, and enjoys staying at home. Right up my alley, though she is put off by the distance. In fact, she was supposed to call last night, but … Continue reading →

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Another Rejection


Posted on May 23, 2004 by Tom Hesley
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[This lady wants to avoid long distance relationships, and she is pretty far away. So I wrote back:] No problem. Thanks for responding. Tom Hesley Related Posts Combating The Shame Of Rejection

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Pat Ignoring Me


Posted on August 23, 2001 by Tom Hesley
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Dear   [Pat], Hey, you ignoring me? I hope I didn’t scare you. As of this morning, I’ve lost 4 of the 5 camp pounds. The rest will be gone by this weekend I hope. Tom Hesley Related Posts Therapy Session: … Continue reading →

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Me Facts Learned in 1995


Posted on December 9, 1995 by Tom Hesley
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• I’m not a socialite. I require only a few close friends, a mate, and my family to supply the social input I need. • I realize that there are lots of other valid points of view. We each see … Continue reading →

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The More I Learn, The Less I Like


Posted on September 30, 1994 by Tom Hesley
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This week, I watched a beautiful woman metamorphose into a plain-Jane and the attraction I felt (the electricity) faded as details about her surfaced, which included the following: • She is happily married. • She grew impatient with my slow … Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Beauty, Distance Loving, Physical Attraction, Shallowness | Leave a reply

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