Today’s question: Can loving from a distance survive getting closer? That is: Can someone we love from afar remain as enchanting once we know them better than as just a beautiful stranger? Can we stay in love with them once … Continue reading
Category Archives: Distance Loving
One Told Me Why She Said No
Hi. Thanks for writing back. I suppose I should put this in my profile. But if I find the right girl, I’ll relocate to where she is if her area meets certain conditions. Given your circumstances, I understand that you … Continue reading
Philly Ellen
Oh yes, [Philly Ellen] called, saying that she wants to keep talking. She’s rethought some of her issues about if and how we’re going to get together. So we’ll keep talking for a while. That was nice. Tom Hesley
Philly Ellen Fits
[Philly Ellen] seems a nice fit because she’s not a bar fly either, and enjoys staying at home. Right up my alley, though she is put off by the distance. In fact, she was supposed to call last night, but … Continue reading
Another Rejection
[This lady wants to avoid long distance relationships, and she is pretty far away. So I wrote back:] No problem. Thanks for responding. Tom Hesley Related Posts Combating The Shame Of Rejection
Pat Ignoring Me
Dear [Pat], Hey, you ignoring me? I hope I didn’t scare you. As of this morning, I’ve lost 4 of the 5 camp pounds. The rest will be gone by this weekend I hope. Tom Hesley Related Posts Therapy Session: … Continue reading
Me Facts Learned in 1995
• I’m not a socialite. I require only a few close friends, a mate, and my family to supply the social input I need. • I realize that there are lots of other valid points of view. We each see … Continue reading
The More I Learn, The Less I Like
This week, I watched a beautiful woman metamorphose into a plain-Jane and the attraction I felt (the electricity) faded as details about her surfaced, which included the following: • She is happily married. • She grew impatient with my slow … Continue reading