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Category Archives: Lust
Bitter Sweet Attention
I heard from [Kar] yesterday. She left me voicemail, curious about how Mom is doing since the heart failure diagnosis last week. That was sweet of her to remember my family in these trying times. Now I do not normally let a call … Continue reading
Rethinking The Plusses Of Beauty
It occurs after years of dating, that perfect tens only stay that way for an instant. Then they become as human and flawed as the rest of us. Makes one wonder at the long-term advantage of a ten; particularly once … Continue reading
Judy’s Silent Rejection
From audio journal episode: AJE-2010-05-31-21-52. I thought when I got back in touch with [Judy] a few weeks ago (details here), that things would be different this time. But so far, we’ve only talked once on the phone in nearly … Continue reading
Fast Love Can Be True Love
Dear [Mentat], I enjoyed our debate last weekend about how close to true love, love at first sight (LAFS) actually comes. You say that LAFS is not love at all, but rather just infatuation or lust. So you seem to … Continue reading
Predicting Love
Friends, People say that you can’t predict when that in-love feeling will strike. They argue that we shouldn’t be picky about who we date because, as they say, you never know when the love bug will bite. If you judge … Continue reading
I Love You Emmy
Dear [Emmy], You know I love you and I hope you never forget that. We’ve been through a lot over the past six years that’s brought us closer together emotionally than I’ve ever felt with anyone else. I love all … Continue reading
My Commitment Jitters
My current objections to complete physical and emotional commitment to one person follow. I didn’t always feel this way, and I may not always feel like this. But currently, this is where my head and heart are. In fact, these … Continue reading
Lust Fades Too Fast!
So here I am some four decades into my love quest. I’ve dated some women; some very sexy women at that. In all those relationships, except where the ladies were mostly unavailable, my sexual interest disappeared quickly; too quickly. Sometimes, … Continue reading
Outer Vs. Inner Beauty
Dear [Ballerina], Hi. How are you? I hope you’re well and that you remember me, because it’s been five years since we last spoke. You remember that summer of 2004 when I winked at you on the web. I wanted … Continue reading