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		<title>The Final Close Encounter With Emeebee</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2010/06/13/the-final-close-encounter-with-emeebee/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 14:29:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Acceptance]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Looking backward from 2010-06-13 to 1994-01-10. I Got the DateÂ  [Emeebee] agreed to my terms; sort of.Â  Details on that debate to come.Â  Yet a premonition haunted me in the days prior, that this would be our last real date unless I could pull off something momentous to turn her around.Â  Though I thought my [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Judy&#8217;s Silent Rejection</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2010/06/07/judys-silent-rejection/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 21:35:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Loneliness]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[From audio journal episode:Â  AJE-2010-05-31-21-52.Â  I thought when I got back in touch with [Judy] a few weeks ago (details Â here), that things would be different this time.Â  But so far, weâ€™ve only talked once on the phone in nearly a month, and my messages have either gone tersely answered, or totally unanswered.Â  So, Iâ€™m [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Avoid Distracting Compassion</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2010/06/01/avoid-distracting-compassion/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 13:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Heightism]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://TomsLoveQuest.com/?p=2478</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve found thatÂ a fulfilling relationship starts with picking the right women.Â  But to do that, we should know what we must have, and must not, in order to fall in love.Â  Our â€śrequirementsâ€ť should be clear in our minds, and we should insist on them as gently as possible, but firmly as well.Â  However, if [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Thought: 2010-05-07</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2010/05/07/thought-2010-05-07/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 May 2010 15:32:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://TomsLoveQuest.com/?p=2453</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If I can&#8217;t have you, I&#8217;ll find someone else.Â  Tom Hesley]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Past Jilt</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2009/05/24/getting-past-jilt/</link>
		<comments>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2009/05/24/getting-past-jilt/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 16:20:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coping With Jilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emmy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Letters]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://TomsLoveQuest.com/?p=1738</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dear [Emmy], Getting over someone leaving you can be quite the painful experience. Iâ€™veÂ beenÂ through this pain several times over the years, and found the following books most helpful: How to Survive the Loss of a Love,Â  Â by Peter McWilliams, Harold M. Bloomfield, and Melba Colgrove. This book offers thoughts, procedures, techniques, and diet tips to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Vee Did Not Return</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2001/06/19/vee-did-not-return/</link>
		<comments>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/2001/06/19/vee-did-not-return/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jun 2001 01:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Aloneness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://TomsLoveQuest.com/?p=1016</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[DearÂ Â  [Vee], I&#8217;m not sure what to say about last night. Oh, it was wonderful to be sure, our time together. I&#8217;d never received a dozen red roses and a card from a lady before. Thanks for that expression of your love. It will never be forgotten. However, when you did not return, after you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Emeebee&#8217;s Jilting</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/1994/05/05/emeebees-jilting/</link>
		<comments>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/1994/05/05/emeebees-jilting/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 May 1994 11:44:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coping With Jilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emeebee]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jilt]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://TomsLoveQuest.com/?p=368</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[After the last exchange with [Emeebee] though, I still love her, I promise myself never to initiate anything with her, and to ignore any attempts of hers to start a friendship. The past few months of heartache prove that interaction with her injures me and the resulting pain takes more than a month to fade. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Easing Jilt Pains</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/1994/03/01/easing-jilt-pains/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Mar 1994 20:32:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coping With Jilt]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[An Army Caravan 50 Best Friends My Mother &#38; Other Family Folks The Red Cross A Nurse Or Doctor The Policemen Or Firemen A Loving Woman Grandparents A Big, Warm Quilt A Teacherâ€™s Assistant Favorite Songs An Empathic Teacher Hospitals Superman Captain Marvel A Self Help Book Good Pain Relievers Techniciansâ€™ Tools A Smiling Face [...]]]></description>
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		<title>On The F Word</title>
		<link>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/1994/02/26/on-the-f-word/</link>
		<comments>http://TomsLoveQuest.com/1994/02/26/on-the-f-word/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Feb 1994 19:56:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hesley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Coping With Jilt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jilt]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[F&#8212; you! Sometimes, NO curse better expresses my anger, frustration, exasperation, and fear; especially when jilted. Tom Hesley]]></description>
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