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Thomas J. Hesley's Account of his Quest for True Love

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Category Archives: Mall Shopping

She’s More Sane Than I


Posted on May 29, 2009 by Tom Hesley
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Dear [Jack], Hi there. How are you? Just wanted to touch base and give you an update on [Linda]. I’ve thought of late, of my time in Philadelphia between 1997 and 2001. All those Sundays seeing you and your partners … Continue reading →

Posted in Acceptance, Aloneness, Attraction, Beauty, Dating Venues, Letters, Loneliness, Love At First Sight, Mall Shopping, Pain of Rejection, Physical Attraction, Rejection | 1 Reply

Successes 1994-11-05


Posted on November 5, 1994 by Tom Hesley
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• Started a conversation with a lady at the bus at the Dayton mall. Ruled her out however. She smokes. Success! • Ruled out another because she was unresponsive and too young. Success! • Met Jennifer, 23 years old, and … Continue reading →

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Successes 1994-10-08


Posted on October 8, 1994 by Tom Hesley
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• Ruled out Marsha W. She had a change of heart due to her work in the military. • Ruled out Kristen H. She stood me up twice without calling. • Responded to four personal ads on DateLine. • Answered … Continue reading →

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“Mall Shopping”


Posted on July 4, 1994 by Tom Hesley
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A fearful situation I wish to master… Approaching pretty ladies at the mall and making meaningful conversation. • She’s sitting on a bench across from The Discovery Zone. • She’s waiting on a bus. Tom Hesley

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Love Questing At Salem Mall


Posted on March 18, 1994 by Tom Hesley
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• I’m at the Salem Mall now. • As usual, I feel paralyzed and can’t approach anyone. • If they talk first though, the paralysis is healed instantly. • The smaller the amount of encouragement, the greater the paralysis is. … Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Dating Venues, Fear of Rejection, Lust, Mall Shopping, Physical Attraction, Rejection | Leave a reply

Trip To Salem Mall


Posted on February 26, 1994 by Tom Hesley
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Tonight I’m riding bus 24 to the Salem Mall to meet a new lady, Julene. [Emeebee], just the prospect of meeting someone new makes my emotional memory of you far mare dim, Perhaps she’ll help me banish the dream of … Continue reading →

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