Boundaries I’m Currently Stretching • Sending unsolicited ads to ladies on the Internet. • Periodic attendance at Group Interaction. • Immediately ruling out of unattractive girls. • Keep personal ad by the phone in case nice-sounding female calls on business. … Continue reading
• Lunch with Lisa at McLellans. Success! • Ruled out Lisa N. She’s engaged. Success! • Sent letter and photo to Joann in New Jersey. Success! • Ruled out Ginger at the Christopher Club (CC). Success! • Sent personal ads … Continue reading
• Ask for one dance during week one. Done. • Ask for two dances during week two. Done. • Ask for three dances during week three. Not done. • Ask for three dances and her phone number during week 4. … Continue reading
• Targeted Lisa F for a date request. Success! • Told Linda that I’m hurt when she abruptly interrupts our conversations to talk and dance with someone else. Success! • Reintroduced myself to Joann, and [then] we danced. Success! • … Continue reading
• Asked Kelly out. She said no, but we did have a nice talk nonetheless. • Asked Linda out again. And again, she said no. • Asked six to dance at Arthur’s. All but one said no. And the only … Continue reading
Co-facilitating tonight. Question for the group: How do I feel about dating someone with Children? Tom Hesley
What I’ve Done Since Last Time • Got a date with DD. • Asked BC out. She declined saying that she just started dating a new man. • Asked seven or eight ladies to dance. All accepted except one. • … Continue reading
• Attend the Christopher Club on Friday nights. • Attend all Group Interaction get-togethers. • For ladies who indicate interest but cannot date me because they’re seeing someone else, check back with them periodically. • Attend dances at Arthur’s on … Continue reading
How can you tell if it’s you specifically, or just SOMEONE that an interested party wants? How do you know that the person wants you for your unique qualities and is not simply lusting in such a way in which … Continue reading
Group Interaction Pre Meeting Socializing • I met this charming young woman who is barely 16 years old. Shucks! Ice Breaker Is there a difference between being just different, and being plain weird? • Weird = different in a negative … Continue reading