Tom's Love Quest

Dear Haley,

Sounds good. [We can try for a coffee break then.] Whenever you’re here, let me know and we can head to [the dining room]. Or, I’ll snag you if you’re in your cube when I pass by.

Later,
Tom Hesley

Dear   [Lisser],

Well, I had intended this to be a lunch where (just) you and me could talk at length and get better acquainted. Harder to do that in a group. But if that makes you uncomfortable, I very well understand. Don’t worry about it.

Tom Hesley

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Dear   [Kristen],

Hey there. [...] How’s [your project] coming? Wanted to check back about lunch next week. Or, if you’re available sometime this weekend or next, perhaps we could do something then.

Later,
Tom Hesley

Dear   [AM],

Lunch Friday sounds great. I’ll call you just prior to 11:30 on Friday. I’ll follow up with Lor to see if she wants to go.

Later,
Tom Hesley

• Send personal ad to ten ladies. Success!
• Got three responses back saying that they’d like further communications. Success!
• Placed my personal ad by all my telephones so that should a nice lady call me, I can read her the ad. Success!
• Sent several unsolicited personal ads lately. Success!
• Responded to six ads in August, but none of the ladies called me back.
• Tell Tommi that I’m in love with her. Success!
• Sent Kendra P. a note. Success!
• Met Adina on the net. Success!
• Talked to Kim D. Success!
• Placed ad in DateLine section of the Dayton Daily News (DDN). Success!
• Responded to about ten ads in DateLine DDN. Success!
• Called Lisa C. Success!
• Sent out three personal ads today.
• Cathy – one DateLine lady responded my call. Ruled her out however.
• Sent seventeen ads on Internet.

Tom Hesley

• Lunch with Lisa at McLellans. Success!
• Ruled out Lisa N. She’s engaged. Success!
• Sent letter and photo to Joann in New Jersey. Success!
• Ruled out Ginger at the Christopher Club (CC). Success!
• Sent personal ads to two people. Success!
• Sent ads to four more ladies. Success!
• Responded to letter from Rosebud. Success!
• Sent out four more personal ads. Success!
• Three ladies responded to these ads. Success!
• Wrote a second time to two of these. Success!
• Talked to Melissa. Success!
• Invented idea of sending a personal ad to everyone on the net.
• Exchanged more email with Michelley.
• Sent personal ad to twenty more ladies today. Success!
• Left Rosanne a voice message. Success!
• Emailed ten more ladies today. Success!
• Wendy wrote back. Possibly interested. Success!
• Sent pictures to Jamie and Kim. Success!
• Ruled out Jean D. Success!
• Emailed ten more ladies. Success!
• Emailed ten more ladies. Success!

Tom Hesley

• Targeted Lisa F for a date request. Success!
• Told Linda that I’m hurt when she abruptly interrupts our conversations to talk and dance with someone else. Success!
• Reintroduced myself to Joann, and [then] we danced. Success!
• Several women asked me to dance. Success!
• I think Pam has a crush on me. Success!
• Hosted a disco party last night at my home. Success!
• Met Melissa – Tracy’s friend. Success!
• Realized that I’ve been wrong to avoid making friends just for friendship’s sake. Success!
• Met Carmen on the 60 bus.
• A woman at Record Town started a conversation with me. Success!
• Beginning Sunday evening attendance at the Christopher Club. Success!
• Make second date with Edie. Success.

Tom Hesley

• Asked Kelly out. She said no, but we did have a nice talk nonetheless.
• Asked Linda out again. And again, she said no.
• Asked six to dance at Arthur’s. All but one said no. And the only one that said yes brought a friend with her onto the floor.
• Met a new lady at church. She was too young however.
• Asked four to dance at Group Interaction. One of them was a charming older woman; but she was only in town for a short time.
• Met Tanya.
• Attended singles Bible study. Two fairly attractive girls were there but I wasn’t sure if I wanted to date them.
• A woman approached me! Now there’s a success.

Tom Hesley