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Dear Susan Jacks


Posted on May 29, 2010 by Tom Hesley
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Dear Susan, I’m sure you get thousands of letters like the one I’m about to write here. So I hope you’ll forgive me if it sounds like I’m just adding my little voice to an already-huge choir. But I’ve enjoyed … Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Beauty, Boyhood Crushes, Letters, Music | 1 Reply

Hello Again To Judy


Posted on May 25, 2010 by Tom Hesley
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Dear [Judy], I hope this beautiful day in the northeast finds you well, and that you’re enjoying it.  I have a friend visiting this week.  So I’ll probably not be able to call you until next week.  Nonetheless, I’m looking … Continue reading →

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Found Judy After Twelve Years


Posted on May 20, 2010 by Tom Hesley
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[Discovered [Judy] on Facebook.  How thrilled I was.  She sent me a message there with her email address.  So I sent back the following.] Hey   [Judy]. Testing to make sure I have your correct email address.  I enjoyed talking with … Continue reading →

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Will BT Write Me?


Posted on October 16, 2009 by Tom Hesley
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Dear [BJ], Would you mind forwarding this message to   [BT]?   I missed her at the last couple alumni events and was wondering how she’s doing. I’d enjoy corresponding with her, and if she’d like to do the same, she can … Continue reading →

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Dreams Of BT


Posted on October 8, 2009 by Tom Hesley
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Dear   [BT], I dreamt of you this morning; the first time in a while.  Yet over the years, you’ve appeared here and there in my slumber, and left me smiling upon waking every time; for days afterward sometimes.  It’s the same feeling … Continue reading →

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Our Second Dinner Dance


Posted on July 29, 2009 by Tom Hesley
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Dear [Prism], As the session wound down, I found myself fondly thinking of you. The meals became the high points of the day because despite that noisy dining hall, I knew I’d see you there, and this made enduring the … Continue reading →

Posted in Acceptance, Arrogance, Attraction, Beauty, Gripes, Heightism, Letters, Physical Attraction, Rejection | Leave a reply

Low Inspiration


Posted on June 24, 2009 by Tom Hesley
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Friends, I’ve felt no inspiration to write the past few days. The loss of [Emmy] so abruptly, given how long we’ve been together, is bringing me down, and my mourning may be clouding my creative visions.  Plus, I’m in love with no one … Continue reading →

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Fast Love Can Be True Love


Posted on June 16, 2009 by Tom Hesley
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Dear [Mentat], I enjoyed our debate last weekend about how close to true love, love at first sight (LAFS) actually comes. You say that LAFS is not love at all, but rather just infatuation or lust. So you seem to … Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Beauty, Letters, Love At First Sight, Lust, Physical Attraction, Self Esteem, Shallowness | Leave a reply

Predicting Love


Posted on June 13, 2009 by Tom Hesley
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Friends, People say that you can’t predict when that in-love feeling will strike. They argue that we shouldn’t be picky about who we date because, as they say, you never know when the love bug will bite. If you judge … Continue reading →

Posted in Advice, Attraction, Letters, Love At First Sight, Lust, Physical Attraction, Rejection, Shallowness | Leave a reply

The More Mundane Me


Posted on June 11, 2009 by Tom Hesley
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Friends, Last weekend, [Linda] quipped that she’d like to see more of my writing that focuses less on my quest for true love, and more on life outside of the quest.  However, since the Love Quest has been such a … Continue reading →

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