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When To Say “I Want You”


Posted on January 1, 2003 by Tom Hesley
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My interest in showcasing my sincerity, along with my distrust of those who hide agendas, is probably why I’m up front and honest with desirable women. I tell them that I want them within the first few conversations. Sure. Sometimes, … Continue reading →

Posted in Advice, Beauty, Giving Rejection, Honesty, Preferences, Rejection, Trust | 1 Reply

Me in Sunglasses


Posted on September 20, 2002 by Tom Hesley
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Dear [Vee], Interesting. Some ladies have told me that I look better in the shades than in the clear glasses. I’m actually more comfortable wearing the clear glasses. I just worry that they make me unattractive. But if you like … Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Confidence, Fear of Rejection, Gripes, Letters, Physical Attraction, Preferences, Receiving Rejection, Rejection, Self Esteem | Leave a reply

Overbrook Alumni Dinner


Posted on March 20, 2001 by Tom Hesley
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Dear   [Rick], I definitely want to come. I’ve put it [the Overbrook alumni dinner] on my calendar. Well, the ladies can weigh more than 95 pounds, as long as they’re taller than five feet, seven inches. But they should not … Continue reading →

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Woman Wants Older Men


Posted on October 12, 1999 by Tom Hesley
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Hi. Well, I don’t know. The 10 year age difference between us is not, in and of itself, a problem for me. Now admittedly, it may turn out to be a problem. But my thinking is that one cannot be … Continue reading →

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Woman Wants Taller Men


Posted on October 12, 1999 by Tom Hesley
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Hi. Yes, I noticed your height. That was one of the things that interested me, as I’m generally drawn to women my height or taller. On the preferences: Some folks are more flexible in the attributes they’re looking for in … Continue reading →

Posted in Attraction, Compromise, Heightism, Letters, Obesity, Physical Attraction, Preferences, Receiving Rejection, Rejection | Leave a reply

About My Dream Girl


Posted on March 3, 1994 by Tom Hesley
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Extremely pretty but only somewhat popular. Responsive but not overbearing. Involved yet available. Beautiful yet dedicated. Strong-willed yet compassionate. Tall yet feminine. Passionate yet patient. Persistent but gentle. Directed but easy going. Small waist but long legs. Watchful eyes which … Continue reading →

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