The Fallacy Of Hero Worship

Dear [Mentat], See my   Tom’s Views –> Self Actualization – A Strictly Internal Affair   piece for more details about Maslow’s   self-actualization   concept. But if we accept [Abraham Maslow's] needs hierarchy [triangle] as gospel, the state of self-actualization, that does not rely … Continue reading

Love Addiction

Dear [Mentat], Yes. When addiction becomes so strong that it compels you to throw good sense out the window, then it must at least be better understood, if not suppressed. Unfulfilled cravings drive many to exude antisocial, counter productive behaviors. … Continue reading

Dating Blind Women

Dear [Mentat], You are a wise man. Much more so than you realize. You’ve managed to put words to feelings that I’ve struggled to express since I broke up with [Lenee] some seventeen years ago. I too feel that usually, dating … Continue reading